People today are very curious. Often they don’t know what to ask you about. How about you come up to me and sit at my desk and tell me about yourself. What are some of the little things you would like me to learn? Well let’s go down to dinner and talk about what you think you’d like to try.
This week we will explore some of the myths which surround getting what you want when you want it. We will also discuss whether or not your idea of love is real or is a mirage, and in this case it will be a mirage.
There is a famous saying, what goes around comes around, or right it came around for you! The truth is that our expectations could very well affect our ability to accomplish those dreams we have in life and that is why you need to understand that there is a cycle here. This cycle is created by what you expect based upon what you expect to achieve. When our expectations do not line up with our capabilities then we begin to feel discouraged, unfulfilled or hopeless.
It is very important that you understand that expectations are not set in stone. To start out you werent given any of this information about self-love. Now youve been given the knowledge, so now your expectations are a bit more clear. Hopefully this will help you get what you desire out of life. There are several elements that can help you create your goals. There is a positive side of this but there is also a negative side to this.
The greatest success you’ll ever have was always a combination of a combination of factors. It is important that you know exactly what it was you did to get there. Do you remember the part in the movie, “Ocean’s 12,” the part where the girl says, you know, every girl wants to be a pop star but it takes a little persistence and a willingness to follow your dreams through the hard times. Do this for many couples.
I always hear from wives and husbands who want to take it down a notch in their marriage. Thats exactly what we did and how we are doing it. Instead of expecting things to happen at a pace, we focus on the fact that by doing what we are doing we are not expecting it to be a regularity so what happens when it happens is just great, by doing this we create a sense of urgency that comes straight from the heart.
