If you live in a house that has 11 best friends, you may not ever get invited to parties. This is especially the case for friends with whom you are very close: siblings, cousins, in the same class. That’s why it’s important to check the number of best friends in your Facebook friends list. When there are 11 best friends, you may find that you’re the only one who is allowed to join parties in most of the bars and restaurants in your town.
Once, after years of being an asshole in high school, I decided to tell them: you guys are the best thing on earth, and everyone else is faking it… This may sound crazy now, but this is the ultimate proof… you can also be an asshole, but you get to go on the stage.
Everyone is aware they are the best people, they donʻt realize a person can be both and still not be the best. The best people are actually the people who are the nicest but have the most energy, are the most creative, and are willing to express their feelings without hesitation.
This is a good way to build your community. Everyone in your community is someone you have bonded with because of that person (their personality or behavior) you have grown comfortable with, it’s a safe space to talk about anything you’d rather not, and it sets you apart from everyone. In fact, if you’ve reached a place in your life where you feel like an outsider, that’s just like being the outsider in a new town and you’ll be all right.
The ultimate trick is to find this person and start a conversation or two. Once they have found something to get into and they start talking, you can be there for them in a friendly way. For a group of 11 best friends, even a couple of hours will do, because the conversation just starts to grow. You can always break off, have a drink or two on your own, and they’ll be there for good.
The first step on your path to friendship is understanding the importance of your friendship within your community. Friends allow you to see how your other friends are doing and let you know that it’s ok to give what you’re not getting on a social level from them. If you do not develop this trust and friendship with your friends, your friendship will end.
This is one of the biggest problems in our life today is the perception of friends. I am all for having lots of friends, but if I cant have at least 20 friends, I am in deep trouble. For example, I am in college and I have a very big group of friends in my fraternity with whom i have a really good relationship.
